Sensory Processing & Emotion Regulation | Occupational Therapist Sarah Collins

Ever wonder why your child can’t sit still during lessons? Why they melt down when they’re wearing certain clothes? Or why they’re suddenly screaming at you when they haven’t eaten in hours? The answer might lie in sensory processing—a critical yet often overlooked component of learning and behavior.

In this illuminating conversation on the Brainy Moms podcast, occupational therapist Sarah Collins joins Dr. Amy and Sandy to unpack how our sensory systems influence every aspect of learning and daily life. Beyond the familiar five senses we all know, she explains how our vestibular system (balance), proprioception (body awareness), and interoception (internal body signals) create the foundation for successful learning and emotional regulation.

Sarah reveals the surprising connection between body awareness and emotion regulation, backed by research showing that children who struggle to sense what’s happening in their bodies often have difficulty managing their emotions. This knowledge transforms how we understand “difficult” behaviors—what looks like defiance or lack of focus might actually be sensory overwhelm.

The homeschooling environment offers unique opportunities to accommodate sensory needs. Instead of forcing children to adapt to one-size-fits-all learning environments, parents can create flexible spaces that support each child’s sensory profile. Maybe your child comprehends better while gently rocking, standing, or even upside down! As Sarah explains, “calm” doesn’t necessarily mean “still”—it means the nervous system is regulated enough to process information effectively.

Most powerfully, Sarah shares practical strategies for identifying sensory needs and adapting environments accordingly. From morning routines that incorporate movement to sensory-friendly workspaces, these approaches can dramatically improve learning outcomes. She also discusses how to balance competing sensory needs when siblings have different—sometimes opposite—requirements for successful learning.

Ready to transform your homeschool experience? Listen now to discover how understanding sensory processing can lead to less frustration, more enjoyment, and deeper learning for your entire family.

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Beyond the Win: Tips for Parenting Young Athletes & Dancers | Dr. Chelsea Pierotti

Need some tips on parenting your athlete or dancer? Dr. Chelsea Pierotti joins Dr. Amy and Sandy on this episode of the Brainy Moms podcast to reveal the psychology behind peak performance and what parents can do to help—and sometimes, what they should stop doing.

Drawing from her background as both a sports psychologist and professional ballet dancer, Dr. Chelsea shares why dancers face unique mental challenges as “artistic athletes.” Unlike team sports with constant reactions, dancers follow choreographed routines that leave dangerous space for overthinking. She explains why even elite performers need strategies to stay present while letting physical skills flow automatically.

The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Dr. Chelsea unpacks why training for unexpected difficulties builds genuine confidence. Just as Olympic champion Michael Phelps practiced with broken goggles, dancers need to experience music cuts or costume malfunctions in practice to develop true resilience. This “training for the rare” teaches athletes they can handle anything—a skill that transfers far beyond performance.

Parents will particularly appreciate Dr. Chelsea’s clear guidance on their proper role in youth sports. She advises parents to be supportive managers handling logistics, while gradually teaching children to communicate directly with coaches. Her mantra “control the controllables” helps athletes focus exclusively on their attention, actions, and effort—letting go of judges, referees, and other external factors they cannot change.

Perhaps most valuable is our discussion of redefining success beyond winning. By focusing on the “gain” (progress made) rather than the “gap” (distance from perfection), athletes develop healthier mindsets and lasting motivation. The 1% rule she shares demonstrates how small daily improvements compound into remarkable growth.

Ready to help your young performer develop mental toughness that serves them in competition and beyond? Listen now and discover how to support the journey of your athlete or dancer without stepping into the coach’s lane.

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