work life balance

Ever feel like you’re failing at work if you don’t give 110%, and failing at home if you try? You’re not alone in this impossible balancing act.

In this conversation between Dr. Amy and returning guest Leah Remillet, balance strategist and host of the Balancing Busy podcast, they tackle the myth of perfect balance head-on. Leah redefines balance not as equal attention to everything, but as “being true to what actually matters to us—not what we’re being told matters.” This perspective shift alone can liberate working moms from unnecessary guilt and perfectionism.

What makes this episode particularly powerful are the personal stories Leah and Dr. Amy share about their perceived “failures” that unexpectedly became their children’s greatest lessons. Leah worried about delegating household tasks to her kids, only to discover years later that her daughter was grateful for the confidence these responsibilities built. Similarly, Dr. Amy’s health limitations meant her husband handled most household duties—inadvertently teaching their sons that household work isn’t gender-based, but determined by capacity.

We dive deep into Leah’s practical “10 Simple Tweaks” for busy moms, exploring everything from limiting screen time and batching similar tasks to outsourcing what drains you and scheduling actual “recess” time for yourself. The science is clear: those intentional breaks make you more productive, not less, by reducing cortisol and preventing mental fatigue.

Whether you’re drowning in to-dos or simply tired of feeling pulled in too many directions, this conversation offers both permission to simplify and practical strategies to reclaim your time and energy. Your worth isn’t measured by how busy you are—and this might be the most important lesson you model for your children.

Ready to do less but better? Listen now and discover how true balance starts with being unapologetic about what matters most to you.